WARNING FOR SISTERS

Bismillahir Rahman Nirrahim

Aaj k naujawan ladke bholi bhali ladkiyo ko jaal me fasane me maharat hasil kar chuke hain. Aam taur par ladkiya tajrabakar nahi hoti or ladke har nayi ladki ko aisi chalaki se karib karte hain k aqal dang rah jati he. Agar ladki unko deendar nazar aati he to us se neki or namaz ki baate shuru kar dete hain, us ladki ko kehte hain k ttmhari wajah se mere dil me nek banne ka shauk paida ho gaya he, agar ladki k andar hamdardi nazar aati he to uske samne apni pareshaniya sunana shuru kar dete hain. Agar ladki garib hoti he to usko nokri dilwane ya apne paaw par khada hone ka mashwara dete hain.

Agar ladki naaz nakhre wali ho to uski tarifo k pul baandh dete hain agar ladki dekhne me sidi sadi shakal rakhti he to usko kehte hain k tumhare chehre par sadgi ka nur nazar aata he.

Agar ku6 samajhme na aaye to kehte hain k mere dil me aap ka bada ehteram or izzat he, aap ki sharafat mujhe achchhi lagi, garz koi na koi aisi baat karte hain jo us ladki ki dukhti rag hoti he. Jab ladki baat-chit karna shuru kar deti he to fir dhire dhire use shishe me utarna shuru kar dete hain. Uski birthdate likh lete hai take use mubarakbad di ja sake, sms me aisi shayriya likhte hain k padhne wala dil tham k reh jae, kabhi kehte hain k mujhe aap khate waqt yaad aayi, namaz me yaad aayi agar che wo toilet me yaad aayi ho. Agar ladki namazi ho to kehte hain k mere liye duwa karna mujhe ap ki duwa k qabul hone ka bada yaqin he.

Maqsad ye hota he k wo ladki bhi koi baat kare fir baat se baat aage badhe. In sab hathkando se ladki hamse baat-chit kare, hansi mazak kare, apni persnal baate kare. Uske baad ladki ko yaqin dilate hain k meri niyyat buri nahi he magar mujhe aap se pyar ho gaya he. Zaban se kehte hain I LOVE U magar dilme kehte hain I NEED U (mujhe aap ki zarurat he) jab dekhte hain k ab ek kadam or aage badhaya ja sakta he to us ladki ko apne jhute ishq ki dastan sunate hai, use apne khwab sunate hain k aaj raat mene khwab me ek ladki k sath ye kiya wo kiya. Is par b agar ladki ku6 na bole to fir filmo or gaano k baare me baat chit shuru kar dete hai, pu6te hain tumhe konsa gana pasand he mujhe to ye pasand he, tumhe konsi film pasand he mujhe to ye pasand he. Fir us ladki se kehte hain k mera dil chahta he k aap ke pas beth kar aamne saamne ji bharke baate karu mere liye ku6 waqt nikalo.

Garmi k mosam me kehte hain k thandi sadak ho or ham dono us par nange paaw chalte chalte thak jaye or usi par so jaye. Sardi k mosam me kehte hain k ham ek charpayi par bethe baate karte rahe or hamare hath-pair kambal me lipte ho.

Agar ladki aisi baat bhi khushi se sun le to samajhte hain k manzil karib he. Fir us ladki se akele me milne ko kehte hain.

Thodi der k baat kehte hain k gale mil lo, ek baar apni aankho ka bosa lene do fir kabhi aisa nahi karunga. Agar ijazat mile to har mulaqat me khulte jate hain or aakhir me zina kar bethte hain. Maqsad sirf ladki se apni shahwat (sex) pura karna hota he. Lekin jis ladki se ek baar apni shahwat (sex) pura kar lete hain us se kabhi shadi k liye tayyar nahi hote. Dil me ye baat hoti he k jo ladki kunwari hote huwe mujhse jismani mel rakh sakti he wo meri biwi ban gai to dusro se jismani ta'alluk kyu nahi jodegi.

Aam taur par aisi shadiya nahi hoti agar ho bhi jawe to do reson ki wajah se talaq ho jati he.

(1) shohar apni biwi k baare me shakki ban jata he, yaha tak k agar ladki apne sage bhai se bhi muskura kar baat kar le to shohar ko shak hota he, agar ladki apne maayke jane ki ijazat mangti he to shohar mana kar deta he. Sochta he k maike jakar kisi k sath mil na jae.

Ek talim yafta naujawan ki pasand ki shadi hui to wo office jate waqt ghar ko tala lagakar jata tha, kisi ne pu6a k ghar me biwi ko arjunt zarurat pad sakti he. Aap use band kyu kar dete hain ? To usne jawab diya k jo ladki apne maa-baap se chhupa kar muhabbat kar sakti he wo mujhse chhup kar kisi padoshi se muhabbat kyu nahi kar sakti. Is se andaza lagana chahiye k chhupi dosti karne wali ladkiya kis tarah apna bharosa kho bethti hain.

(2) shadi k naakaam hone ki dusri wajah ye hoti he k shadi se pehle ladka har baat me ladki ki tarif karta tha, uski har ulti ko sidhi kehta tha. Ab shadi k baad haqiqat me wo husband ban kar rahta he, sahi ko sahi or galat ko galat kehta he. Ladki samajhti he ke pehle me achchhi thi ab kya huwa ke mujhme khamiya nazar ane lagi is tarah aapas me jhagde shuru ho jate hain. Kabhi aisa hota he k ladka shadi to kar leta he par usko chhupi muhabbat ki lat lag jati he. Fir wo dusri ladki se wahi pyar muhabbat shuru kar deta he jis ki wajah se pehli shadi naakaam ho jati he.

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Ladkiyo k sath friendship se dil me yahi baat hoti he k ladki se apni khwahish puri karo jitna arsaa daaw lag sake. Jab ladki majbur kare k apni walida ko rishta lekar kyu nahi bhejte to bahane banate hain.

Agar ladki samajhdar hoti he to pi6e hatne lagti he, to use burayi k liye majbur karte hain. Ladki ko kabhi kehte hain k me goliyaa kha lunga, me pankhe se latak jaunga, me tumhare name khat likh kar chhat se kud jaunga.

Agar tum mujhe nahi mili to. Is tarah jitna waqt nikal sakta he nikalte hain, Agar ladki ke parents uska rishta kisi or jagah karna chahte hain to ladki k samne udasi ki baate karte hain, k me tumhare bagair zinda nahi rah sakunga, tum ne mera sukun 6in liya, tumhari wajah se mera padhai me dil nahi lagta is wajah se me fail ho gaya, agar tum mere sath shadi na karogi to me thik us waqt khud kushi karunga jab tumhari doli uthegi, yaad rakhna agar tumne mere sath shadi na ki to me tumhare hone wale khawind ko sab bata dunga, me tumhare khawind ko tumhare khat dikhaunga, tumhare photo dikhaunga, tumko talaq dilwakar rahunga, ab tum meri biwi ban kar hi zinda rah sakogi, Ladki bechari in jhuti makkaariyo se achchhe achchhe rishte thukra deti he, walidain k samne zillat or ruswai bardasht karti he magar zid karti he k mera rishta fula ladke se hi kiya jae warna me khud kushi kar lungi, kahi chali jaungi.

Fir agar ladki us ladke se kehti he apni walida ko hamare ghar bhejo mere ghar wale haa kar denge. To ladka jab dekhta he k ladki har taraf se kat kar mere liye farig ho gai to wo us se jinsi ta'alluqat (sharirik sambandh) bar qarar rakhta he magar walida ko bhejne k baare me bhane karta he. Kabhi kehta he k fula kaam ki wajah se ammi masroof hain, kabhi kehta he k fulaa baat paish aag gai to ghar me baat kaise karu samajh me nahi aata.

Jab ladki ziyada majbur karti he to ladka keh deta he k meri ammi nahi manti, kayu karu mere abbu nahi mante. Is tarah waqt guzar deta he. Ladki ko musibat me dal deta he. Wo na idhar ki rehti he na udhar ki, Aise mod par pahunch kar ku6 ladkiyaa khud kushi kar leti hain, ku6 din raat wazife karti hain k ladka apni maa ko bhej dewe, ku6 ladkiyaa mannate manti hain ya tawiz dhage k pi6e lag jati hain. Ku6 apni galati ko manne k bajae namaz padhna 6od deti hain k Allah ta'aala meri duwa kabul hi nahi karte. Galati aapni hoti he. Ladka us ladki se shahwat puri kar chuka hota he, ab wo ladki uski nazar me istimal kiye huwe toilet paper ki tarah hoti he, is wajah se wo ladki ko talta rehta he or milna band kar deta he.

Aakhir me itna kahunga k jo ladkiyaa apni izzat ki kadar o kimat janti hain wo lakho pareshaniyo k hote huwe bhi gair mahram ki taraf baal barabar bhi mutawajjeh nahi hoti, naa hi unko karib aane ka mauka deti hain. Aisi aurto (ladkiyo) ko allah ta'aala apne karib kar lete hain or apni marifat ka nur ataa farmate hain.

GHAR KE BAHAR CHEHARE KA PARDA:

Aye Nabi! Apni biwiyon, betiyon aur momino ki aurato se kehdo ke jab wo bahar nikla karein, toh apne cheharo par apni chadarein latkaa kar (ghoongat nikaal) liya karein, ye amal inke liye moujjib-e-shinaqt aur (imtiyaz) hoga, toh inko koyi izaa na dega.
>Surah Ahzaab:59

Ye ayat ghar se bahar parde ke mutaluq hai ke ghar se bahar jaana ho toh jisam ke saath saath chehare ko bhi chupaa kar niklein, is ayat ke mutaluq Qayamat ke din Allah Taala sawaal karega. Log be-bunyad baat kehte hai ke chehara aur haato ka parda nahi hai, Quran ki is ayat se wazeh ho raha hai ke chehare ka parda wajib hai.

Asma(ra) kehti ke hum ghair-mardo se apna chehara chupaya karti thi.
>Sahih: Al Hakim

Ghar ke Andar Ghair-Mahroomo se parda:

Ek dafah ummool Moomineen, umme Salama(ra) aur Maimoona (ra), Aap (saw) ke saath baithi thi, itne me ibne Umme Maktoom(ra) aa gaye, Aap(saw) ne dono biwiyon se farmaya ke is shakhs se parda karo. In dono Nabi ki biwiyon ne arz kiya ke yaa Rasulullah! Kya ye na-beena nahi hai? Hume dekhenge na pehchanenge. Toh Aap (saw) ne farmaya: Kya tum dono na- beena ho? Kya tum usey nahi dekhti?
>Tirmizi; Abwabul Astezaan, Baab Maaja Fi Ahtejabun Nisaa Minar Rijaal:2728

Mere Nabi ne andhey Sahabi se humari Maawo ko parde ka hukm diya hai, toh aye Musalman aurato! Tum dekh ne walo se parda kyu nahi karti ho??? Kya is amal ka sawaal tum se Qayamat ke din Allah Taala nahi karega???

TIGHT LIBAS/ BURQA PAHENNE WALI BEHNEN ZARA GHAUR KAREN....

Hazrat Abu Huraira Razi Allahu anhu se Riwayat hai ke Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne Irshad farmaya ke
“JAHNNAMIYO KE 2 GIROH MAINE NAHI DEKHE(MERE BAAD ZAAHIR HONGE)

1. KUCH LOG AISE HONGE JO BAILON KI DUMON KI TARAH KODEY LIYE PHIRTE HONGE JINSE WO LOGON KO (ZULMAN) MAARA KARENGE,

2.] Aisi Aurten hongi jo kapde pehne hue bhi NANGI hongi (ghair mard ko apni taraf) MAAel karne wali hongi, (uski taraf) Maael hone wali hogi, unke SAR aise (phule hue) honge jaise bade bade Oonto[camel] ke Jhuke hue KOHAAN hote hain,

YE AURTEN JANNAT ME DAAKHIL NA HONGI AUR JANNAT KI KHUSHBOO (BHI) NA SOONGHEGI HALAAN KE JANNAT KI KHUSHBOO ITNI ITNI DOOR KI MASAFAT SE MEHSOOS KI JAATI HAI.”
[MISHKAT 306, MUSLIM]

NOTE:- uryaan AUR Chust(tight) LIBAAS PAHENNE WALI AURTEN ISs HADEES ME WARID SHUDAH WAEED PAR GHAUR KAREN.

AaJ KAL BURQA HIJAAB NAHI ISS HADEES ME WAEED KA MISDAAQ HOGAYA KE GHAIR KO MAEL KARNE KE LIYE ISTEMAL HO RAHA HAI, ISLAMI HIJAAB ISTEMAL KAREN BURQA SEEDHA SAADHA AUR DHEELA DHALA ISTEMAL KAREN.

AKHIRAT KI FIKR KAREN DUNYA AAKHIRAT KE MUQABLE AISI HI HAI JAISE SAMADAR KE MUQABLE ME SUI (NEEDLE) KE NAAKE ME PANI KA KHATRA.

ALLAH TA’ALA HAME AKHIRAT KI FIKR ATA FARMAYE AUR BEHAYAI SE BACHAYE.
AMEEN

MUSALMAN BEHNO KE LIYE KUCH…!!!!

1.Hazrat Abu Moosa Razi Allahu anhu se Riwayat hai k Nabi kareem Sallallah alaihi wasallam ne Irshad farmaya ke
“(Ghair Mehram ko dekhne wali) Har Ankh ZAANIA hai . aur Aurat Jab KHUSHBU laga kar Kisi Majlis ke Qareeb se guzre to wo aisi aisi hai yani ZAANIA hai.”
[ABU DAWOOD, TIRMIZI]

2. Hazrat Ibne Umar Razi Allahu anhuma se riwayat ke
“ Beshak Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne LANAT bheji Baalon me Baal milane Waali par aur Baalon me Baal Milwane wali par aur Godne wali par aur Gudwane wali par”
[BUKHARI O MUSLIM]

FAIDA: Baalon me baal Milana Mazmoom tareekha hai aur LANAT ka sabab hai isne bhi bhot Riwaaj paaliya hai aur bhot se mard bhi isko apna lete hain,
Huzoor sallallahu alaihi wasallam ke Irshad ko nahi dekhte sirf RIWAAJ ko dekh kar Amal karna Shuru kardete hain.

3. Hazrat Abdullah bin Masood Razi Allahu anhu ne ek martaba farmaya ke Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne LANAT bheki godne waliyon par aur godwane waliyon par, aur CHEHRE ke baal Ukhardne waliyon par aur LANAT bheji hai un AURTON par jo Husn ke liye DAANTO ko GHIS kar BAREEK banati hain jo ALLAH ki TAKHLEEQ ko Badalne wali hain. Ye sun kar ek Aurat ne Hazrat Ibne Masood Razi Allahu anhu par kuch aetraz kiya to unho ne farmaya ke mai us par KYU LANAT na bhejun kis par RASOOL ne LANAT bheji aru wo Allah ki Kitab me bhi MAL’OON hai ALLAH TA’ALA ka Irshad hai
وَمَا آَتَاكُمُ الرَّسُولُ فَخُذُوهُ وَمَا نَهَاكُمْ عَنْهُ فَانْتَهُوا (59:7)
Allah ke Rasool jis cheez ka tum ko hukum den usko Qabool karo aur jis cheez se tum ko Rokey use ruk jaao.
[BUKHARI O MUSLIM]

FAIDA: isse pehli wali Riwayat me Baalon me baal milane aur Balon me Baal milwane par LANAT ka tazkira tha, is Hadees me Baal ukhadne wali par LANAT farmayi jaisa ke bhot si AURTEN BHAON(eyebrows) ko Khamdaar banana ke liye Ukhardti hain. Neez ye bhi famraya ke Un Aurton par ALLAH KI LANAT ho jo apne DAANTO ko Ghiss kar Daanto ke darmyan me khalaa paida karti hain.

GHAUR SE PHIR PADHLEN DEKHEN KYA AP IN WAEEDO ME TO NAHI YA KOI QAREEBI ISME TO NAHI!!

AGAR HAI TO KHUD BHI BACHEN AUR DOOSRO KO BHI BACHAYE.

AUR TAMAM BHAI APNE GHAR WALON K BHI BACHAYEN.

ALLAH PAAK HUM TAMAM KO TAMAM LANATI KAAMO SE MEHFOOZ RAKHE.
AMEEEN.

Dear sisters ♥

Don't be like some girls who are pleased by seducing men and proud of being surrounded by many guys...

remember, cheap items are usually surrounded by many buyers...

Don’t try to win a boy’s love and lose God(Arabic:Allah’s) satisfaction But be like a star, so far no one can reach you, so dear, bright and shining, guiding people with the light of your good deeds

Be like a pearl, so precious, well protected in your shell (hijab ), the only one who can have you is the right man who would realize your true value and cherish your protected beauty

Just be a true and strong Mujahidah fighting against all the fitnah and temptations around her :) .

DON'T forget to shares with your dears ♥ .

No Boyfriends! As a Muslim, you know that having a boyfriend is haraam because it counts as Zina - fornication. Fornication, in easy English, means `sexual sin'.

Allah expressly forbids romantic or sexual relationships outside of marriage.

When people goagainst that rule, then you get the typical western society where people play sexual merry-go-round with each other, giving each other STDs, using and abusing each other, and destroying the sacredness of marriage as an institution. You can't even be sort of engaged to a guy, and then"date"to get to know each other.

In Islam, non- Mahram men and women aren't allowed to be alone together (that includes talking o*!n the phone!), to touch (not even shake hands), or even gaze at each other. It doesn't matter if the guy youlike is Muslim, a great guy and the Prince of England, you can't date him.

No Boy—friends! The easiest way to ensure that you don't end up falling in love with some guy before you're ready to get married is to avoid making friends with boys. Of course in school you have to interact with boys all over the place, but that doesn't mean you should be best buds with them. Probably 90% of relationships begin from friendships. Chances are you're not ready for marriage, your parents aren't ready to let you get married, you're still in school/college and yourcrush is not the sort of fellow you want to spend the rest of your life with, so just avoid being friends with him in the first place.

It really is the best formula for saving yourself fromneedless temptation. When you haveto talk to boys in school as teammates, lab partners, group members, and peers, it's best to maintain a distance. That means thatyou don't confide in them, you don't let down your guard, you don't unnecessarily engage them in needless conversation, don't joke around, and never flirt. Yeah it may be a little hard, but this is your afterlife we're talking about. So many great sisters have put themselves in really sticky situations because they allowed a boy to get to know them, and either ended up liking the boy, or having the boy like them.

o*!nce that happens you eitherend up becoming a pair (which is HARAAM!), or having to end your friendship. Instead of letting it get to that point, and then having to kill a friendship that you probably worked hard o*!n cultivating, you should just stop it before it begins.

There are plenty of great girls all around who can be your friends and if you really think o*!nly a guy will understand your problem, then talk to your REAL brother, or your father, or an uncle